Do Words Have Meaning Anymore?
Within each culture there are certain words that carry a specific meaning known only to the aborigines and veterans of that culture.
For example, in the German culture if you point to the temple on your head with your index finger, you are expressing the same sentiment in German as if you were to extend the middle finger high in the air here in the states.
In Germany, Switzerland, or Austria, if you were to ask the question: “How are you today,” be prepared to listen to an answer. Here, expect to hear one word that carries no meaning. Something like, fine.
What does fine mean? What does good mean? How about “All things considered, I’m doing well.”
Have you ever muttered under your breath while attending a rock concert how much you’d like to play the guitar or the keyboards? How truthful are those words? Do you really mean what you say?
Try an experiment today. Pay specific attention to the words your friends and co-workers use when conversing with each other. Notice how ambiguous their statements are.
We have mastered such words as: that’s interesting, we’ll see, I might, perhaps or maybe.
The ‘Good Book’ councils us to say “yea, yea” and “nay, nay.” What does that mean? Is it possible that our language aptitude has an impact upon our happiness quotient? I don’t know about you, but my purpose for existence is to be happy and have joy?
Improving our ability to effectively communicate will eliminate misunderstandings and hurt feelings. In sales, assumed closes are a tool that leverages ambiguity and puts the person being sold to in an uncomfortable situation.
Assuming there is understanding is like saying I want to play the guitar but never taking lessons or even owning a guitar.
What do your words mean?
Most people have a strong desire to communicate effectively.
Some people have the basic knowledge of communication tools that are helpful. Knowledge is obtained through study and taking courses.
Very few people possess the necessary skills. The skills are acquired through coaching and practice.
Just wanting to improve your communication is not enough.
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