"Of all actions of a man's life, his marriage does least concern other people,
yet of all actions of our life 'Tis most meddled with by other people."
John Selden
1584-1654, British Jurist, Statesman
| January 2-3, 2010 | Tacoma Wedding Expo WA - Washington | |
| January 9-10, 2010 | Portland-Vancouver Wedding Expo OR - Oregon | |
| January 9-10, 2010 | Seattle Wedding Expo WA - Washington | |
| January 22-24, 2010 | Hawaii Bridal Expo - January HI - Hawaii | |
| January 30-31, 2010 | Lynnwood-Everett Wedding Expo WA - Washington | |
Here is a letter we received regarding the Expo in Hawaii in July 2009:
I just attended your wedding expo last weekend - there were eight of us that flew in to attend the expo to prepare for my daughter's wedding in May 2010.
It was such a wonderful event, I asked a vendor for a contact address so I could email and tell you how much we appreciated the expo. What fantastic vendors, so generous with their time and expertise. We came away with brochures and business cards and so many marvelous ideas and options.
We spent several hours there. We particularly liked the models in wedding dresses that circled during the expo. It was so helpful to be able to see each dress up close and touch the fabrics and ask the models to turn, etc. You just can't do that with a runway show. Also, the models were wonderfully patient with us. This actually helped us determine the designer and style for my daughter's wedding dress.
The sample wedding table settings and wedding decoration vendors were also very helpful in planning a theme for the wedding - again wonderful displays and very professional vendors. Even though we do not reside locally, we made contacts we'll be using for the wedding here at our location.
Again, thank you so much for a wonderful event. I just had to write and say I think everyone did an amazing job!
For an extra sweet favor, treat your guests to a slew of different kinds of colorful candies on their way out.
To make your own candy bar, simply choose candies in your theme. Look online for special colored candies. Then place them in large vases and hurricanes of different shapes and sizes.
Remember to go all out with the candy -- you don't want to have a wimpy-looking candy bar!



During a conversation with my wife the other day, Cheri commented that men are just like puppy dogs. Since I’m not fully comfortable being compared to the four-legged animal kingdom, I asked for clarification. She smiled and explained: “Dogs are pleasers. They want their masters to be happy.”
She’s right. I am a pleaser. I don’t like it when my wife is angry with me. I want to make her happy and I don’t like the doghouse. I prefer my wife’s bed, just like my dog.
When we (husband and wife) take the time to talk about important items, we discover we both want the same things. What doesn’t make sense is how often a husband or a wife will act in such a way that elicits the exact opposite reaction needed to accomplish the goal.
This is called collusion. The art of doing the exact opposite of what I want.
We have found the best way to avoid collusion is by having a BOD meeting. The next time you find yourself in collusion with your spouse or child or anyone,
STOP, DROP, and ROLL.
Stop what you are doing. (Discontinue the fight, the discussion, the dialogue.)
Drop your argument completely. (No excuses, no explanations, no blaming.)
Roll the discussion into a BOD meeting to protect yourself from making matters worse. (Put the topic on your agenda and handle it in such a way that gives you the highest probability of working out a win/win scenario.)